| Dear thomas, If you want your man to see you as the one woman he can't live without, you need to stop making the dangerous mistakes most women make that push men away.
These mistakes give you a temporary commitment at best, and you need to stop making them - right now! - so you can start getting the love and commitment you want.
Mistake #1: Trying to "convince" him
Just like a pushy salesman trying to get you to buy a car, trying to convince a man that he should be in a relationship with you actually makes him want it LESS.
Why? Because convincing feels unnatural. He realizes that if a relationship with you was what he really wanted there'd be no convincing necessary. He'd FEEL IT emotionally, and his feelings would tell him all he needs to know.
Mistake #2 Trading
If you start withholding yourself from a man when you don't get the love and connection you want, or you only "give when you get," you're trading. Doing this keeps you from the very thing you want, creating resentment and distrust inside a man's mind.
You can't "win" the trading game. Rather than helping a man and a woman closer, it creates mistrust and distance.
Mistake #3 Giving Him An Ultimatum
While giving your man an ultimatum will definitely get you an answer, when you put a guy on the spot like this, it usually won't be the answer you want.
Pressure does not change people's feelings. Especially when it comes to a man's often stubborn and unexplored emotions.
The Real Way To Make Him Commit...
The real way to get a man to commit is by making him feel like he's better off with you than he could be with any other woman.
Most women don't realize that men CRAVE a loving, intimate, connected relationship. They've just buried those feelings so deep inside that they don't even know they are there.
The secret is unlocking those hidden feelings by getting him to experience them when he's around you. And here's the best part: Because so few women know how to help a man get in touch with this emotional part of himself, your ability to help him to do it will bind him to you forever.
It's like you've flipped a secret trigger in his heart that makes him want to be with you night and day... and no one else.
Fortunately, learning how to flip this hidden switch is easy, you just need someone to show you how.
In my free newsletter I'll unlock men's secret feelings and thoughts, so you can understand why we do what we do, what we are really thinking, and how to compel us to want to be the loving, attentive and mature partner you want us to be.
Wishing you the best of luck in life and love, Christian Carter
Relationship Expert, Author of Catch Him And Keep Him ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ I hope you enjoyed the article above. It was written by Christian Carter, the best-selling author of the eBook "Catch Him And Keep Him", who has helped millions of women understand how men think and improve their love lives. Regards, David Riklan
Editor - Self Improvement Newsletter
Founder - SelfGrowth.com |
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